You might be surprised that am revealing about my frailties….But I don’t mind about that because this post would atleast reinvigorate some of the people around me and bring some much needed zeal into them atleast for a short span of time…

This is an inspirational write-up by Chetan Bhagat and I repent that I haven’t come across this one till this moment….Most of you would have probably gone through this before but it isn’t bad to give a read again..I won’t say that I would remain charged up always hereafter by just skimming through this article only once but rather I would go through this every now and then to revitalize myself….

Hi all,
Sorry for the delay in making a new post. To compensate, I will make this a longer one. I recently visited the fantastic Symbiosis campus in Pune and gave the inaugral speech to the incoming BBA batch. Since many of you may be joining/rejoining college soon, I thought I will share this speech with you.

Otherwise, I shall be in Delhi for the OSIANS film festival. I have a session on Literature and Cinema on Sunday, July 13, 2008 at 5pm in the Siri Fort Auditorium. It is free entry, so do come if you wish to meet me. The festival also has a great selection of movies that you don’t normally get to see and there are major bragging rights for weeks even if you watch one of them ( “I was at OSIANS last weekend, and you? shopping at the mall again?”).
Anyway, back to the speech, I decided to call it Sparks. I am pasting it below.
Till next time, love and regards – me.
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Keep the Spark
Inaugural Speech for the new batch at the Symbiosis BBA program 2008
© Chetan Bhagat
Good Morning everyone and thank you for giving me this chance to speak to you. This day is about you. You, who have come to this college, leaving the comfort of your homes
(or in some cases discomfort), to become something in your life. I am sure you are excited. There are few days in human life when one is truly elated. The first day in college is one of them. When you were getting ready today, you felt a tingling in your stomach. What would the auditorium be like, what would the teachers be like, who are my new classmates – there is so much to be curious about. I call this excitement, the spark within you that makes you feel truly alive today. Today I am going to talk about keeping the spark shining. Or to put it another way, how to be happy most, if not all the time.

Where do these sparks start? I think we are born with them.My 3-year old twin boys have a million sparks. A little Spiderman toy can make them jump on the bed. They get thrills from creaky swings in the park. A story from daddy gets them excited. They do a daily countdown for birthday party – several months in advance – just for the day they will
cut their own birthday cake.

I see students like you, and I still see some sparks. But when I see older people, the spark is difficult to find. That means as we age, the spark fades. People whose spark has faded too much are dull, dejected, aimless and bitter. Remember Kareena in the first half of Jab We Met vs the second half? That is what happens when the spark is lost. So how to save the spark?

Imagine the spark to be a lamp’s flame. The first aspect is nurturing – to give your spark the fuel, continuously. The second is to guard against storms. To nurture, always have goals. It is human nature to strive, improve and achieve full potential. In fact, that is success. It is what is possible for you. It isn’t any external measure – a certain cost to company pay package, a particular car or house.

Most of us are from middle class families. To us, having material landmarks is success and rightly so. When you have grown up where money constraints force everyday choices,
financial freedom is a big achievement.

But it isn’t the purpose of life. If that was the case,Mr Ambani would not show up for work. Shah Rukh Khan would stay at home and not dance anymore. Steve Jobs won’t be
working hard to make a better iPhone, as he sold Pixar for billions of dollars already. Why do they do it? What makes them come to work everyday?

They do it because it makes them happy. They do it because it makes them feel alive. Just getting better from current levels feels good. If you study hard, you can improve your
rank. If you make an effort to interact with people, you will do better in interviews. If you practice, your cricket will get better. You may also know that you cannot become
Tendulkar, yet. But you can get to the next level. Striving for that next level is important.

Nature designed with a random set of genes and circumstances in which we were born. To be happy, we have to accept it and make the most of nature’s design. Are you? Goals
will help you do that.

I must add, don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your
health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order.
There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.
You must have read some quotes – Life is a tough race, it is a marathon or whatever. No, from what I have seen so far, life is one of those races in nursery school. Where you
have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same with life, where health and relationships are the marble. Your
striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die.

One last thing about nurturing the spark – don’t take life seriously. One of my yoga teachers used to make students laugh during classes. One student asked him if these jokes
would take away something from the yoga practice. The teacher said – don’t be serious, be sincere. This quote has defined my work ever since. Whether its my writing, my job,
my relationships or any of my goals. I get thousands of opinions on my writing everyday. There is heaps of praise, there is intense criticism. If I take it all seriously, how will I
write? Or rather, how will I live? Life is not to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here.We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? It’s ok, bunk a few classes, goof up a few interviews, fall in love.We are people, not
programmed devices.

I’ve told you three things – reasonable goals, balance and not taking it too seriously that will nurture the spark. However, there are four storms in life that will threaten to
completely put out the flame. These must be guarded against. These are disappointment, frustration, unfairness and loneliness of purpose.

Disappointment will come when your effort does not give you the expected return. If things don’t go as planned or if you face failure. Failure is extremely difficult to handle, but
those that do come out stronger. What did this failure teach me? is the question you will need to ask. You will feel miserable. You will want to quit, like I wanted to when nine
publishers rejected my first book. Some IITians kill themselves over low grades – how silly is that? But that is how much failure can hurt you.

But it’s life. If challenges could always be overcome, they would cease to be a challenge. And remember – if you are failing at something, that means you are at your limit or
potential. And that’s where you want to be.
Disappointment’s cousin is frustration, the second storm. Have you ever been frustrated? It happens when things are stuck. This is especially relevant in India. From traffic jams
to getting that job you deserve, sometimes things take so long that you don’t know if you chose the right goal. After books, I set the goal of writing for Bollywood, as I thought they
needed writers. I am called extremely lucky, but it took me five years to get close to a release.

Frustration saps excitement, and turns your initial energy into something negative, making you a bitter person. How did I deal with it? A realistic assessment of the time involved –
movies take a long time to make even though they are watched quickly, seeking a certain enjoyment in the process rather than the end result – at least I was learning how to write
scripts , having a side plan – I had my third book to write and even something as simple as pleasurable distractions in your life – friends, food, travel can help you overcome it.
Remember, nothing is to be taken seriously. Frustration is a sign somewhere, you took it too seriously.

Unfairness – this is hardest to deal with, but unfortunately that is how our country works. People with connections, rich dads, beautiful faces, pedigree find it easier to make it – not
just in Bollywood, but everywhere. And sometimes it is just plain luck. There are so few opportunities in India, so many stars need to be aligned for you to make it happen. Merit
and hard work is not always linked to achievement in the short term, but the long term correlation is high, and ultimately things do work out. But realize, there will be some people
luckier than you.

In fact, to have an opportunity to go to college and understand this speech in English means you are pretty darn lucky by Indian standards. Let’s be grateful for what we have and
get the strength to accept what we don’t. I have so much love from my readers that other writers cannot even imagine it. However, I don’t get literary praise. It’s ok. I don’t look
like Aishwarya Rai, but I have two boys who I think are more beautiful than her. It’s ok. Don’t let unfairness kill your spark.
Finally, the last point that can kill your spark is isolation. As you grow older you will realize you are unique. When you are little, all kids want Ice cream and Spiderman. As you
grow older to college, you still are a lot like your friends. But ten years later and you realize you are unique. What you want, what you believe in, what makes you feel, may be
different from even the people closest to you. This can create conflict as your goals may not match with others. . And you may drop some of them. Basketball captains in college
invariably stop playing basketball by the time they have their second child. They give up something that meant so much to them. They do it for their family. But in doing that, the
spark dies. Never, ever make that compromise. Love yourself first, and then others.

There you go. I’ve told you the four thunderstorms – disappointment, frustration, unfairness and isolation. You cannot avoid them, as like the monsoon they will come into your life at regular intervals. You just need to keep the raincoat handy to not let the spark die.

I welcome you again to the most wonderful years of your life. If someone gave me the choice to go back in time, I will surely choose college. But I also hope that ten years later as
well, you eyes will shine the same way as they do today. That you will Keep the Spark alive, not only through college, but through the next 2,500 weekends. And I hope not just
you, but my whole country will keep that spark alive, as we really need it now more than any moment in history. And there is something cool about saying – I come from the land
of a billion sparks.
Thank You.
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Yes, folks am talking about the infamous transformers at each zone which get frequently exploded like an atom bomb burst during Deepavali…I got irked for the past one week when I heard one of the transformers near my locality getting burst very frequently…

The most frightening thing here is that kids out here in my surrounding use to play there. The response from the Electricity Board was rubbish and they hardly took any step to avert this danger…Also, my neighbors including me had hectic times with intermittent power failure as a consequence of the series of explosions…

And, we all know how we would be thrown into a state of nausea when go past the transformers..Taking all these hazards into account, why doesn’t the EB propose a provision for an enclosure for the transformer so that people can stay safe (especially during torrential rainy seasons) and also the zone won’t be littered..I am not much into electricals but it is palpable for me that there is one way or other to eradicate the dangers arising from these dratted transformers…

And, this is the sole reason why I hate transformers the movie

I shouldn’t be short tempered any more, Why don’t I be proactive this year? I need to lose 20 pounds this year,I shouldn’t betray anyone………

The bottom-line of New Year Resolution

I for one would stand firmly against these non-sense resolutions and I have zero conviction when it comes to these stuffs…..forgive me if I have hurt anybody…..According to me, life should go without any enforcements…..Touch your heart and say how many of you really persevere and stick to these things till the end of the year…I would say barely a finite no of people……

I would be the only one to stand firm against new year resolutions but still contemplate much about new year resolution strategies

Ultimately you are going to end up with a lot of fuss that you weren’t able to accomplish anything…And am seriously dubious about people realizing their errors only on December 31….what do they do till that day??

If you could perceive that you are going wrong somewhere, you should rectify it then and there

Otherwise it would infer that the person is very much dormant and is ready for postponing the rectification process to next year….And it would look awfully funny if a person commits a mistake at the start of a year….I don’t mean that I am never error-strewn but I don’t set up unnecessary resolutions….At least I rejoice the new year unlike some of you who are anxious…

Enjoy the life without any fuss people!! Wishing you all a happy and prosperous new year.  2010 here we go!!

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